Parents: Your Stress and Expectations Are Contagious by Olivier Poirier-Leroy, SwimSwam April 26, 2018 | 0 minutes, 39 seconds read Research continues to show that a relaxed, hands-off, let-the-kid-own-the-sport is best for creating an environment where they will not only have more fun, but also excel both in the short and long term. As a swim parent who wants the best for their little swimmer you know that it can be very difficult walking the fine line between being too involved and being too aloof with your kiddo’s performance. For young swimmers who are get particularly excited or over-anxious it is helpful to understand that part of the reason they are feeling this way has to do with how anxious the parents are before competition. As it turns out, the stress and anxiety we feel about our swimmer’s performance trickles down into how stressed and anxious they are. Read the rest at SwimSwam sports in this article Swimming tags in this article Issues & Advice