How to Fuel Your Athlete and the Whole Family

Dealing with the preferences and needs of different family members at mealtime can be extremely difficult for caregivers. You may have one child who’s going through a ‘picky eater’ phase, another who’s a vegetarian, and a third who comes home famished after two-a-day practices. You may have your own food preferences as well.

Often, caregivers try to solve this problem by making different meals for different family members, but doing this costs you time and money, and it doesn’t teach your young athletes how to create tasty meals for themselves.

Here, TrueSport Expert Kristen Ziesmer, a registered dietitian and board-certified specialist in sports dietetics, explains how to rethink mealtime for every member of your family while saving yourself time and stress in the process.

Look at Components, Not Meals

“As a caregiver, you can change your perspective on mealtime,” says Ziesmer. “Shift from needing to have a specific meal prepared to a perspective of asking yourself, ‘Do I have all the components of a balanced meal? Do I have a carbohydrate on the table? Do I have vegetables? Do I have enough protein? Do I have some fat?’ And then, everybody can pick and choose what they want.”

For example, rather than serving plates of tacos to each member of your family, set the table with bowls of brown rice, black beans, seasoned ground beef, taco shells, cheese, guacamole, sautéed peppers and onions, romaine lettuce, and spinach. Your hungry athlete can build tacos with all of the ingredients, your vegetarian can omit the beef, your picky eater can skip the lettuce, spinach, and guacamole, and you can make yourself a taco bowl with everything except for the rice and taco shells.

Similarly, with a meal like spaghetti that’s typically served with pasta and a red sauce with beef mixed in, you can split it into pasta, sautéed spinach, red sauce, cooked ground beef, white beans or seasoned crumbled tofu, and shredded parmesan. Your athlete will likely eat a big helping of pasta with all the toppings, your vegetarian can skip the beef, your picky eater can skip the spinach, and you can opt for a smaller pasta serving with more sautéed spinach.

Understand the Different Needs of Your Family

If you’re struggling to feed everyone and mealtime often ends in arguments, you’re not alone. Ziesmer says that it’s common for mealtime to cause stress, especially when you have multiple children with different needs and preferences. She recommends listing out what each family member needs at mealtime. A young athlete, for example, requires plenty of carbohydrates and at least 20 grams of protein at each meal, in addition to plenty of colorful fruits and vegetables to provide the micronutrients they need. You may also have a young teenager who’s a vegetarian, and as such, requires a non-meat protein option to meet their daily nutritional needs. Perhaps you also have a young child who’s currently refusing to eat green vegetables, while you’re actively trying to lower your carbohydrate intake and need a low-carbohydrate option on the table. Once you have the list of what each member of your family needs, it’s easier to break meals down into the necessary nutritional components to keep everyone happy and healthy.

Start With Simple Building Blocks

Ziesmer is a fan of meal prepping once a week, or once every 3-4 days if that’s easier. “What it comes down to is just having basic ingredients on hand and ready for mealtime,” she says. “That way, everyone can just make their own meals as needed.” This means prepping staple ingredients like brown rice, chicken breasts, tofu, beef, roasted vegetables and beans in the oven, slow cooker, rice cooker, or grill. It can also include chopping up raw vegetables for easy meal additions, like peppers, tomatoes, and onions. The more you can streamline ingredient preparation for the week, the less stressful mealtime is likely to be, and the easier it is for your athletes to add extra proteins or carbohydrates to meals and snacks when needed. You can also get your athlete involved!